By Lois Gold
Divorce is a tragedy - a tragedy that happens 1000000 occasions a 12 months. the way you glance again upon this significant milestone on your lifestyles is your selection. Following the sensible recommendation provided during this crucial ebook can help gather the instruments that may make all of the distinction on this planet. As such a lot of of Gold's consumers have stated, "I failed at my marriage. i am not going to fail at my divorce."
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When you separate, the last thing you are thinking about is how to maintain a constructive relationship with your partner. You are thinking about how to make the pain go away, how you will survive, how to bring love back-not how to get along. The idea of cooperating with the one person who has caused this pain seems unthinkable. Divorce is the antithesis of marriage, yet it too places demands on a relationship. Just as a strong marriage is the foundation for a healthy nuclear family, a cooperative working relation15 16 I • Facing the Crisis of Separation Constructively ship between divorced parents is fundamental to the post-divorce family and the welfare of its children.
But so much more that was not said was understood. That is ritual. We all have feelings about our marriages which transcend our anger. They are buried beneath the pain. When you have shared a profound part of your life with another person, you don't want to feel it is being erased just because it didn't last forever. Your relationship was once full of hope, potential, and dreams. There is no opportunity to acknowledge what was good or to express your sorrow at its loss because when emotional bonds rupture, all the disappointed hopes, unmet needs, and unexpressed resentments surface.
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Between Love and Hate: A Guide to Civilized Divorce by Lois Gold